Perry Halkitis on Youth Obsession, Aging With HIV, and Surviving for Decades
BY Nicholas Cimarusti
February 12 2014 4:00 AM ET
Getting older isn’t easy, but the addition of HIV to the aging process is uncharted territory, both medically and psychologically. Perry N. Halkitis, a New York University professor of applied psychology and public health, explores the topic in his new book, The AIDS Generation: Stories of Survival and Resilience. The book contains interviews Halkitis (pictured, left) recently conducted with 15 gay men who contracted HIV before 1996, a time when most people died within a few years of their diagnosis. Each man tells his story of survival during the 1980s and early ’90s and what his life following that harrowing period has been like. Perry talks to us about aging in a youth-obsessed culture, the missing mental health link, and why “survivors’ guilt” is overstated but mental health counseling is crucial for people with HIV.
Why is the subject of aging HIV-positive people so important?
First of all, you have this aging of America, and in this aging there are a lot of LGBT folk. We know very, very little about Baby Boomers in general and very little about those who are LGBT and almost nothing about those who are LGBT and HIV-positive.
Gay culture is known to emphasize youth. How does that affect older HIV-positive gay and bi men?
I’m a 50-year-old gay man myself, so I feel [the youth obsession]. I’m not going to just point the finger at the gay community, because I think [society in general] is youth-obsessed. However, it seems more pronounced in the gay community. So for those men, many of whom have felt rejected and invisible anyway because of their HIV status, there is this double invisibility.
Does HIV stigma affect longtime survivors and the recently diagnosed the same way?
The stigma is still there. This notion that it somehow disappeared over the course of the last 32 years is ridiculous. Here’s what I really think has changed: We know how this virus operates and we have effective treatments that, if properly administered, can handle it. It’s like we’ve moved forward in so many ways with this epidemic, but it’s like we’re reacting to it emotionally like we did in the ’80s.
We hear a lot of stories about men who become positive while using recreational drugs. What’s the most important link between HIV and drug use?
It’s not just HIV and drug use, I think it’s HIV, drug use, and mental health. I say this all the time to my students: “Show me a drug problem and I’ll show you a mental health problem and I’ll show you sex risk.” They fuel each other.