How to Date an HIV-Positive Guy

There are plenty of good reasons to utter the words “lets just be friends” after a first date. Perhaps there was no chemistry or a lack of shared interests, or maybe he was just a little bit of a dick. Regardless of what your reasoning to either call or not call him again, his HIV status shouldn’t be a factor.

HIV isn’t one of the variables that determine whether you and your partner are an emotional and physical match. It is merely a measure of logistics and science. If all of the other elements of a relationship seem to be clicking — sexual attraction, similar tastes, and a mutual like for each other’s weirdness — both of you would be a fool to let mismatched statuses get in the way.

However, there are a few things you should be know when starting a relationship with an HIV-positive guy.  Pay attention, and you two may live happily ever after — or at least not break up over HIV.