Writer and director Bill Sherwood would never make another film—he succumbed to an AIDS-related disease in 1990—but his only cinematic work, 1986’s Parting Glances, will keep his legacy alive for decades to come. The well-acted and brilliantly written film centers on Robert and Michael, a couple preparing for a two-year separation as Michael heads to Africa for work. Over the course of 24 hours, Robert, Michael, and their friends and lovers all collide to hilarious and heart-wrenching effect. Robert’s ex-boyfriend Nick (Steve Buscemi—perhaps best known today for his star turns in Boardwalk Empire, 30 Rock, and Fargo—in his first major role) is a rock star dying of AIDS. But Nick is never a pitiable character, instead a strong and defiant survivor, a rarity for cinematic portrayals of people with AIDS, in the ’90s and beyond. —N.B.
2. Dallas Buyers Club
Sure, it has its critics, some who feel that because it focuses on a straight man (who in real life may not have been so straight), Dallas Buyers Club de-gayed the early years of the AIDS epidemic—when the concept of “living with HIV” was nonexistent—as well as the impact of gay men who fought the makers of AZT, set up buyers’ clubs, and died of the disease. But you’d be hard-pressed to convince me that Dallas Buyers Club is anything but an amazing film. This 2013 release is based on the true story of Ron Woodroof, a hard-drinking and drugging rodeo cowboy who tests positive for HIV and must battle the specter of death, a scientific community dragging its feet, and his redneck buddies who, like him, are homophobic. He must learn to navigate a world of gay and transgender people, those who he begrudgingly befriends and finds support from when he begins importing medications from Mexico that he thinks will treat HIV better than AZT. As Woodroof, Matthew McConaughey is pure revelation, so immersed in the role that the Kaposi’s sarcoma lesions, the sweat, and the emaciation (he lost 60 pounds for the role) seem as real on him as they were on my friends who were dying all around me in 1989. Jared Leto, as a transgender woman who serves as the heart and soul of the film, is similarly captivating. Both men completely fade into the roles in a way that makes other cinematic portrayals (like Tom Hanks’s performance in Philadelphia) seem tame by comparison, and the film stands as a time capsule of those early days as well as an emotional treatise on living and dying fearlessly. —D.A.M.
The 1997 film of Terrence McNally’s 1995 Tony-winning play, Love! Valour! Compassion! follows a group of gay New Yorkers over three summer weekends at a country house. They flirt, joke, quote Broadway shows, and experience some anger and jealousy alongside the love, valor, and compassion. And, given their times, they can’t escape the shadow of AIDS. Adapted by McNally for the screen and directed by its Broadway helmer, Joe Mantello, this captivating comedy-drama is well-acted by an ensemble that includes all the Broadway players but one (Nathan Lane is replaced here by Jason Alexander). But Alexander is fine as the queeny, funny Buzz, proving he’s more than simply Seinfeld’s George Costanza. Everyone else in the cast is terrific too, but John Glover is a standout, re-creating his Tony-winning dual role as sweet and sour twins. You’ll laugh and you’ll cry—the latter especially at one scene toward the end. —T.R.
4. Longtime Companion
This 1990 release, one of the first AIDS-themed films aimed at a wide audience, is set in New York City and traces the effect of the disease, beginning with its emergence in 1981, on a group of (mostly) gay friends. It has been criticized for its focus on affluent white men, with the black and Latino characters being either marginal or examples of bad behavior, but it has merit as an early effort to put a human face on AIDS for moviegoers who thought of the illness as someone else’s problem. Written by Craig Lucas and directed by Norman Rene, it features several moving moments, including a goose bump–inducing final scene, and excellent performances from a cast that includes Oscar nominee and Golden Globe winner Bruce Davison, along with Campbell Scott and Mary-Louise Parker. —T.R.
While there’s no shortage of serious issues raised in Lee Daniels’s award-winning 2009 film Precious (Based on the Novel “Push” by Sapphire), one that’s treated with refreshing frankness is Precious’s HIV status. While the initial revelation that Precious (played with heartrending clarity by Gabourey Sidibe) is HIV-positive emerges with the news that her abusive father has died of AIDS-related illness, she is determined not to see her diagnosis as a death sentence for her family. Her father’s death feels a bit like retribution, as does the likelihood that her repugnant mother (played by Mo’Nique) is positive, although in denial about it. But Precious is a survivor. She’s 16 and still in junior high, but she gives birth to her second child, who is HIV-negative, and we know she’s going to break the cycle of abuse, neglect, and desperation in her family. The film demonstrates that even for those in dire economic and personal situations, hope and help are available, and that having HIV has no bearing on a person’s fitness as a parent or ability to achieve their dreams. —S.B.